Sunday, January 30, 2011

another update about my papa

So I've been staying in San Diego at my parents house for about 3 weeks. We've gotten into a bit of a routine. In the mornings I love to make my father his breakfast. Eggs with anything delicious and healthy scrambled with them. His favorite additions are artichokes, green onion, avocado, black olives, broccoli, asparagus, mushrooms...any or all of these with sliced tomatoes on the side. In the afternoons we go out for a walk up the street. It's a pretty good walk - I mean it's uphill the entire way. It's no joke. My dad is getting so fast that I am usually breaking a sweat to keep up while pushing Max in the stroller. I would consider letting Max walk with us - but that would mean taking an extra hour to watch him follow his own shadow, usually in the opposite direction of the walk we are wanting to go on, and waiting while he bends down to feel every pebble, leaf and piece of bark along his journey. It would be great fun but we have goals to get my dad healing his body up so off Max goes in that stroller as we huff and puff up the block.
Here is the first time we made it to the top of the "summit"! I was so impressed with my dad. He was only going on 7 minute walks in the beginning and now is passing the 30 minute mark and continues to go further on his walks every day.
This photo was taken at the bottom of the street when we completed the walk.
One day we went to Kit Carson park... Max loved holding my keys and walking along with papa
( who am I kidding - the little guy is not interested in walking WITH anyone really - he just happens to be near grandpa at this moment! )
Here they are again at Kit Carson Park - just before we headed home.
During this walk my dad decided to see if he could not only make it to the top of the "summit" but go even further and walk to the next street. And here is the evidence that he made it. With Max by his side.

And this is what Max looks like after a big day in San Diego
Me and my dad at the park
Max reading up on something pretty interesting it seems.

So the update is that my dad is doing really great. He's still sleeping in the recliner because it hurts to lay down flat in the bed but he doesn't seem to mind. He's been reading in the backyard soaking up the sun, having fun with Max, watching Law and Order ( his favorite show ), and at night we rent movies or I make him watch the reunion show of the Housewives of Beverly Hills! ( I'm obsessed! )

On Friday Jerry flew back into town from Salt Lake City and we drove up to Los Angeles for the weekend. I SO love it when Jerry is in town. It's VERY challenging for me to take care of Max day and night and never get a break. Night time is really difficult because Max doesn't sleep through the night and he cries and cries and needs a lot of soothing. It keeps my dad up which isn't helping his recovery. We head back down next week and at the end of the week we will celebrate Max turning TWO and the next day my dad has his birthday! ( should I tell you how old he is? I guess that's not for me to say now is it? )

I had plans to make a slideshow like I did last year of Max's year in review. I have no clue how on earth I would ever get something like that done without Jerry being home to watch him. So....we shall see if I can pull that off. Max is LOVING spending time with his Grandparents and I'm so glad we have been able to stay there and help out right before we move to Salt Lake City. I think I mentioned that in my last post but it's going to be hard to live so far away from them. Makes me sad thinking about it. I bet most of you who've known me for years and years are stunned to read that right? But hey - people change! Last time I moved away I was 18 and going to Minneapolis and couldn't wait to be as far away as possible. I also smoked 2 packs of cigarettes a day and was trying to kick a bad drug habit.....Times have changed that's for sure. Most people that know me now couldn't imagine me doing either of those things...Now my favorite moments are making eggs for my dad and taking walks with him up the street with my amazing son Max and waiting for my husband to visit us on the weekends. oh and of course watching the housewives of Beverly Hills with my mom! I'm looking forward to writing the blog about Max on his birthday and how much he has grown just in the past few months. He is so incredible. I am in AWE of him.

I cannot believe we are moving to Salt Lake City at the end of February - but more recently I've been feeling VERY ready to see my husband every day and night and stop this crazy schedule of only seeing him on weekends. OVER IT.


Carrie said...

I love Salt Lake City! Eat some Cafe Rio for me!

Kristin said...

Just a random thought on Max's sleep... has he had a sleep study done for apnea? I am currently trying to get an appt scheduled for my Max. More info here:

Derek, Kenzee and Gage said...

Glad to read your dad is doing so well! What a blessing to spend so much time with family! We are excited to have your family close in February :)

Anonymous said...

So glad to see your dad doing so well. And so, so glad that you have this special time with him.
It was great seeing you the other night. I've been trying to scan you pictures of the things the kids have done with their stickers.
Love you guys.

Tausha said...

I would get a sleep apnea test or just get his tonsils and adnoids out. We did that with Sam and he sleeps much better and eats much better. He all of a sudden has an appetite. We didn't do a study but did get his tonsils and adnoids out. Glad your Dad is doing better. Were excited to have you in SLC.