It's a very tricky thing! We're doing an alternative/delayed/selective schedule ourselves, with help from the Dr. Sears model and just using my gut to what feels right. There is so much varying information out there, that you can only really do what you feel comfortable with, and I can definitely see both sides as well. Good luck in your decisions!
This is a very difficult issue for most parents. So much of what we do is driven by an emotional response. Vaccinations hurt our children and usually make them sick for a few days. In the end I had to take a deep breath and rely on my training as a scientist to believe in the data. There is "no statistically significant correlation," despite all the anecdotal evidence. There are also, of course, small but real risks associated with *not* vaccinating. I'll channel my wife now, and just say, "go with your mommy instincts."
thanks you twoi'd love to hear more feedback on what other people have done. Especially those with a baby that has Ds.
We haven't finalized our decisions yet, but we are definitely doing some sort of delayed/extremely selective vaccinations. For one, no vaccinations before the bebeh even has an immune system to speak of, that's asinine in my book.And then, looking at each and every vaccination and do a risk/benefit analysis. Uncurables are extremely high on the list, of course. If it's curable, why the hell vaccinate against it? Then there are things that are curable, but often mis-diagnosed until it's too late (tetanus comes to mind) to consider. No effing way we're going with the standard protocol, but no way we're doing the standard one either. I saw the standard protocol list recently, and it is completely insane. Also, just to be educated, read the side-effects list for vaccinations. This list (long) is WITHOUT mercury preservatives. There are plenty of very good arguments for extreme caution regarding vaccinations -- don't buy that "oh there's no mercury in them anymore, don't be a cry baby" argument. As one autistic parent said "just because you take the chocolate chips out of the cookies, doesn't make them good for you."I look forward to hearing how you go about making your decisions and talking it through with ya'll, either online or privately. It's important stuff, and only we can make these decisions for our own families. loveBp
Gah, posting while tired -- correction:No effing way we're going with the standard protocol, but we're not going to refuse all vaccinations either.
That was well put.This I know for sure: You will make the absolute right decision. Not every right decision feels good the whole time so you can't just go with your gut b/c your gut could be in knots! The great thing is that people are thinking and talking about this instead of just going on auto-pilot.
Came across your blog by accident, starting reading, and would like to offer my experience:As a person on the Autistic spectrum (Asperger's), I've given a lot of attention to understanding my differences and finding the right balances in life (for my sake and possible children's). In terms of causes of autism, the most likely culprit I've found (at least for myself) is an intense viral infection early in life (8 weeks premie) altering my metabolism: reducing my ability to produce certain types of cellular energy.From this deficit, folks with autism could be equated to walking "brownouts". To cope, different systems can compensate. The theory is that this one problem can branch into ASD (the brain takes the hit), ADD (adrenal gland steps in), CFS (the heart takes the extra load), diabetes (the pancreas), or a blend of any of these.I like your idea of spacing out the vaccines. Hopefully, you'll avoid triggering any problems.P.S. I'm not a doctor, so it might be a good idea to do your own research.
Ben, thanks so much for commenting on this post. I appreciate your candor and willingness to share your experience. Bp
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It's a very tricky thing! We're doing an alternative/delayed/selective schedule ourselves, with help from the Dr. Sears model and just using my gut to what feels right. There is so much varying information out there, that you can only really do what you feel comfortable with, and I can definitely see both sides as well.
Good luck in your decisions!
This is a very difficult issue for most parents. So much of what we do is driven by an emotional response. Vaccinations hurt our children and usually make them sick for a few days. In the end I had to take a deep breath and rely on my training as a scientist to believe in the data. There is "no statistically significant correlation," despite all the anecdotal evidence. There are also, of course, small but real risks associated with *not* vaccinating.
I'll channel my wife now, and just say, "go with your mommy instincts."
thanks you two
i'd love to hear more feedback on what other people have done. Especially those with a baby that has Ds.
We haven't finalized our decisions yet, but we are definitely doing some sort of delayed/extremely selective vaccinations.
For one, no vaccinations before the bebeh even has an immune system to speak of, that's asinine in my book.
And then, looking at each and every vaccination and do a risk/benefit analysis. Uncurables are extremely high on the list, of course. If it's curable, why the hell vaccinate against it?
Then there are things that are curable, but often mis-diagnosed until it's too late (tetanus comes to mind) to consider.
No effing way we're going with the standard protocol, but no way we're doing the standard one either. I saw the standard protocol list recently, and it is completely insane.
Also, just to be educated, read the side-effects list for vaccinations. This list (long) is WITHOUT mercury preservatives. There are plenty of very good arguments for extreme caution regarding vaccinations -- don't buy that "oh there's no mercury in them anymore, don't be a cry baby" argument.
As one autistic parent said "just because you take the chocolate chips out of the cookies, doesn't make them good for you."
I look forward to hearing how you go about making your decisions and talking it through with ya'll, either online or privately. It's important stuff, and only we can make these decisions for our own families.
love
Bp
Gah, posting while tired -- correction:
No effing way we're going with the standard protocol, but we're not going to refuse all vaccinations either.
That was well put.
This I know for sure: You will make the absolute right decision. Not every right decision feels good the whole time so you can't just go with your gut b/c your gut could be in knots! The great thing is that people are thinking and talking about this instead of just going on auto-pilot.
Came across your blog by accident, starting reading, and would like to offer my experience:
As a person on the Autistic spectrum (Asperger's), I've given a lot of attention to understanding my differences and finding the right balances in life (for my sake and possible children's). In terms of causes of autism, the most likely culprit I've found (at least for myself) is an intense viral infection early in life (8 weeks premie) altering my metabolism: reducing my ability to produce certain types of cellular energy.
From this deficit, folks with autism could be equated to walking "brownouts". To cope, different systems can compensate. The theory is that this one problem can branch into ASD (the brain takes the hit), ADD (adrenal gland steps in), CFS (the heart takes the extra load), diabetes (the pancreas), or a blend of any of these.
I like your idea of spacing out the vaccines. Hopefully, you'll avoid triggering any problems.
P.S. I'm not a doctor, so it might be a good idea to do your own research.
Ben, thanks so much for commenting on this post. I appreciate your candor and willingness to share your experience.
Bp
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